Tuesday, 17 December 2013

A Typical Pisces

When my two fishes are going in opposite directions it’s hard to stick to my decision. 

Indecisiveness has become my stigma. If I must take a decision: which way to go? If I did take a decision: was it the best? If I talked: did I say the right words? If I didn’t talk: why didn’t I say anything? If I chose something: did I make the right choice? And so on, my entire life is an argument.  The debate runs with the same pathos, either for insignificant or major matters.

I really wonder whether all the Pisces go through the same as I do!! May be they do, and we can share our experiences and learn from them. And maybe it can offer an emotional succor to all of us. Who Knows!!

My indecisiveness irritates people who are close to me. But more than that, I am pissed off with myself due to this typical Pisces character. Hmmm!! Everybody has two facets of their life- a positive one and a negative one. In my case, I guess the negative facet overwhelms, most of the time. Today, I am this amazing girl brimming with positive energy and ready to conquer the world. And tomorrow, I am this dull, depressing and disappointing girl who thinks nothing's gonna work out. And I’m left in this CONFUSED STATE OF MIND for quite some time. 

It takes a lot of hard work for me and for the one who is the closest to me to pull me out from this state. And I'm thankful that I have an amazing husband who plays this role perfectly and always try to instill some sense in me. Hopes everybody has someone or other who will give them the required jolt once in a while! ;-)

"Travel, in the younger sort, is a part of education; in the elder, a part of experience"- Francis Bacon

I have been bitten by a travel bug since long but didn't really set out to fulfill my desires. I have been staying in B’lore since the past 2 years and never have I gone out from my comfort zone, which in my case is just staying at home, watching TV and doing some novel-reading, or visiting various malls, which are the trademarks of India’s Silicon City. If I have to give an excuse for this laid-back attitude of mine, I can say I didn't have a traveling partner. Moreover, I am not that kind of person who loves traveling alone because I need to share the moments with someone I love and comfortable with. Earnest Hemingway said, "NEVER GO ON TRIPS WITH ANYONE YOU DO NOT LOVE." Most of all, I need someone who can click my pics all the time :-P However, I really appreciate those solo travelers who have the guts to travel alone and explore strange places. Hats off to them! 

Getting married (June, 2013) and having a husband, I found my traveling partner, finally! Then the day came when we decided to start our first trip of exploring South India, obviously South India because I am staying in B’lore currently. So, our first destination was Coorg :-)

Coorg- the anglicized name of Kodagu is an administrative district in Karnataka, India. The British planter community was mostly Scots. It was they who affectionately called Coorg ‘The Scotland of India’ because of the many uncanny similarities. Since I have not been to Scotland, I can’t really say in what ways these two places have uncanny similarities.

Moving on, we booked bus tickets from the ksrtc website in advance. We need to have an account to book bus tickets on this website. Next was to search for a good place to stay. I started an “in-depth research” on various travel sites, looking for a nice, comfortable but pocket-friendly place for many days. I found this home stay known as Beehive in Ammathi town. The reviews for this were mostly positive. My husband’s role in this planning was that he called up the owner of this home stay for booking a bamboo cottage for two nights. Pretty reasonable rate!  I would like to add a word of caution here-Ammathi town is very far from Madikere or Mercara, the principal town and district capital, and other major tourist places. If one has transport vehicles at their disposal, it won’t pose much of a problem. Anyway, all the major tourist places in Coorg are separated by approximately 10-20 kms from each other. The only exception may be Raja’s Seat and Abbey Falls which are in Madikere. About Ammathi Town, it is a small and quiet town, really ideal for some soul-searching, for whoever is interested. :-)

We took all the available transportation options :-D  We commuted on government and private buses, autos and taxis. Hell lot of an experience that was!
I have attached pics of the places we visited during the three days and two nights visit. I like the view of sunset at Raja’s seat and the view of River Cauvery at Dubare Reserve Forest & Elephant Camp. The Tibetan monastery at Byle Kuppe is also a nice place. But we have seen several monasteries during our one-year stay in China, so this was a miniature version for us. Still, the place was really worth-visiting. We missed some places like Talacauvery & Bhagamandala and some temples. These are all religious places though they offer some nice views.

Special thanks goes to my hubby who untiringly took all the pics when I posed :-P The credit goes to me as well since I gifted him with a Nikon DSLR 5100 camera on his B’day :-D That was a real motivation for him to take my pics, I MUST SAY!

The more I travel, the more I feel like sharing the experiences and the moments. Through the pics, we want to relive those times when we could just enjoy the sights and sounds of strange but beautiful places. During such times, we almost forget all the pressures and tensions that are inevitably associated with this modern and hectic day-to-day lifestyle. Enjoy the pics! :-)